The Law of Attraction

The law of attraction was first brought to my awareness at the age of 17 when I was introduced to a documentary called "The Secret", still in high school and naive to much of what I now know to be true. Although it was my first time hearing anything about manifestation or the law of attraction, it resonated with my experience of life up until that point and validated much of what I felt to be true. I was able to look back on life and see all of the synchronizations that had taken place, prior to these new ideas I had simply wrote them off as luck or coincidence, but after hearing these new ideas I began to realize it happened far too many times to be a coincidence. That many coincidences throughout my life would be a mathematical impossibility. I knew there had to be an unseen force behind the scenes helping to create these experiences. 

I believe we can all reflect back and acknowledge the vastness of synchronizations we have experienced in our lives. The number of times we have thought of an old friend we haven’t spoken to in years just to have them text us a few days later, the times we have come across new information just for another person to randomly bring it up right after we discovered them, or the times we have prayed or imagined something happening and it “magically” happens shortly after. The list goes on and on because our entire lives have been synchronization after synchronization. Each and every moment whether we are conscious of it or not, we are creating our reality. The law of attraction is a simple concept; the law states that like attracts like. Explained further; your very thoughts and emotions dictate your bodies’ vibrational frequency, and the vibrational frequency you are emitting attracts to you things on a like frequency. This may sound woo woo to many people, but I challenge you to study quantum physics and to deeply analyze your life in order to witness all the synchronizations that have already taken place without your realization or understanding of what is happening. Once you can grasp the idea of the law of attraction, you can begin using this law to manifest your desired reality. 

I’ve had similar discussions with some of my friends whose beliefs systems are strongly tied to religion and the church, so before continuing I’d like to briefly touch on something. Aligning with this belief does not negate the existence of God. Manifestation and law of attraction does not mean God is not real, but it does involve a slight shift of your paradigm. Rather than the idea that you are praying and asking for something, and God is a man in the sky who picks and chooses whose prayers he wishes to answer, the deeper truth is that God created you with the ability to answer your own prayers. In his infinite genius he gifted all of us the ability to imagine the reality we wish to experience, and through aligning our being with that reality it becomes manifest. God did not create a system where all prayers must go through him, instead He gifted all of his children with the ability to co create their reality with Him.

Each morning and night make it a routine to visualize what you wish to experience and while visualizing feel as if you are already experiencing it. Many people mistakenly believe it’s solely about visualizing, but this is only one aspect to it. The visualization aspect of manifesting is part of the yang aspect, we need to be sure to add the yin aspect of manifesting which is in utilizing our emotions. We need to visualize as if what we are visualizing is the reality we are experiencing currently, by believing that is your present reality right NOW, your emotional state begins to match the emotional state you’d be in upon experiencing it. If you can experience it as if it is already your reality, you are tuning your vibrational frequency to be a match to that reality, drawing it towards you. Tuning your vibrational frequency to the desired reality will start a chain reaction of events and synchronizations needed to manifest the desired outcome. People, opportunities, and situations will begin aligning to help create the desired reality.

At the beginning it may be a challenge monitoring your thoughts and emotions and being able to recognize when you have fallen into negative thought patterns or emotional states. It may be difficult at first to consciously replace negative thought patterns with positive thought patterns or to shift your emotional state to the positive, but the more you practice the easier it will become. It’s a simple concept that takes a great deal of awareness and intention, but the effort is well worth the results.

A neat aspect of manifestation and the law of attraction is that while we have the power to manifest and create our own reality, we also have the ability to connect with other beings who share a similar vision to amplify the speed of the manifestation. This concept was first brought to my awareness shortly after I discovered “The Secret” in a book called "Think and Grow Rich". In this book there was a concept referred to as mastermind alliance. Your mastermind alliance can be a group of beings in which you consciously choose to unite with for the purpose of manifesting. Everything is energy, so if you can view our minds and bodies like a battery harnessing a certain amount of energy each, it becomes clear how much more powerful a small group can be compared to just one individual. The more beings you can connect with a similar chief aim the more energy you have working towards your manifestation resulting in a faster actualization of the vision.

A deeper dive into the details of how to properly and effectively manifest your desired reality using the law of attraction.....

The simplest method to achieve your desired reality, is to ensure coherency. Coherency, between your thoughts, emotions, and actions. In order to manifest in full force these three areas must be in sync with each other. If you have the right thoughts and visions but lack the emotional state to match it this is a clear sign of not being congruent which means you are out of alignment with what you are desiring. An example would be visualizing a future of abundance while remaining in the emotional state of lack and scarcity. Even while visualizing abundance if you are feeling lack and scarcity you are an energetic match for lack and are preventing the abundance you desire. Many people also make the mistake of believing manifesting is about having the right thoughts and emotions and just sitting back and waiting. Although this may still lead to some synchronizations and progress, the real key is in taking aligned action. When your visions, emotions, and aligned actions are in perfect coherency there is no other option but to manifest what you are aligned to.

When visualizing, journaling, or consciously manifesting in any capacity the intention behind it should never be in the past or future. When you place an affirmation or intention in future tense you are validating the current state of lack and remaining grounded in the reality you are trying to shift out of. Instead, you should always be speaking, affirming, and visualizing in the present tense. It must be real NOW, in the present moment. Your subconscious mind cannot tell the difference between a visualization and an experience, meaning when you visualize something in your mind's eye your subconscious mind believes that is happening currently. When you can have the experience of it in the now as if its already manifest, this is when your subconscious mind and emotional state can align you to your desired manifestation. 

A key to aligning yourself with a higher vibrational manifestation is in the cultivation of a heightened energetic emotional state. Therefore it is beneficial to cultivate high levels of energetic emotional states such as joy, gratitude, and abundance as frequently as possible making you an energetic match to higher realities.

People tend to feel overwhelmed when attempting to manifest because it is hard to always remain in the coherent states of the mind, emotions, and action. We are all human so do not stress if negative thought patterns, emotions, or actions arise. The key is to catch yourself when you are being pulled out of coherency so you can realign yourself. This is how you will deprogram old thoughts, emotions, and actions and reprogram the new coherent patterns. While in the process of deprogramming and reprogramming it is crucial that you come up for fresh air as often as possible and realign your mind, emotions, and actions to your desired reality. 

People tend to believe they'll be happy, at peace, and abundant when they make a certain amount of money or get some external experience. That is the trap many people have fallen into that keeps them in a repetitive cycle of unhappiness and the pursuit of something external to fix their suffering. The trick is to do the exact opposite. First we must embody happiness, peace, and abundance and then a reality that is a match for those vibrations will be actualized.

I understand that accepting this all as truth can be a bit overwhelming, and for some may seem like far too much responsibility. I challenge anyone reading this to change their perception from that of fear and doubt to love and faith. Realizing that you have the ability to co create your reality is a truth that will empower every cell in your being. Embrace this new realization and begin to consciously choose your thoughts, beliefs, visions, and emotional states. We are all capable of choosing which beliefs empower us, replacing any negative thought patterns with positive thought patters, connecting to more desirable emotions, and being the visionary who visualizes the reality we wish to experience. 

At the very least, I hope I have planted a seed into your awareness that blossoms into more realizations and synchronizations along your journey. Embrace your path and find gratitude for all things past, for they have gotten you perfectly to this point. 

Affirm: I am the creator of my reality. I am manifesting every moment of my experience. I consciously visualize, affirm, and believe things that will validate my desired experience. I am in perfect coherency with my thoughts, emotions, and actions. Anything I visualize, feel, and take aligned action towards is already manifest. The universe is always working in my favor.

-TLH